Disney Parade - I love the Disney Parade. It's musical, colorful, & has some flare. The latest parade is like a show and parade in one. They progress halfway down the parade route and then stop and spend about five minutes doing a performance and then proceed the second half. It stinks to be sitting just over halfway down the parade route, see the thing coming, and then have them stop for what seems like FOREVER!!! One parade time starts on Main Street & ends in Small World. Then next scheduled parade will run the opposite direction. (Check with a cast member to find out where the parade will start). During busy season, there will be two parades daily. One in the afternoon and one in the early evening. I highly recommend the parade. It's a chance to sit, eat, and rest while being entertained. Choose the evening parade to see the floats and features all lit up. The daytime parade will be best for your point n shoot cameras.
Fireworks - MY FAVORITE!!! These show LATE. I usually have one or more children falling asleep. ALL of my toddlers have screamed and cried during this show and I've been racing off to a bathroom to calm them. The explosions are loud and startling. I like it best when Jon & I have come alone. Second best is when I don't have a baby and the toddlers can handle the noise.
In the off season, fireworks are only featured on weekends. You need to check the calendar at www.disneyland.com to check scheduled showtimes.
The latest show is more like a walk through memory lane - Disney style. Various rides and themes are highlighted in the show. Indiana Jones - flaring flames. Star Tours - laser show. Theme songs from other attractions set to bright fireworks above the castle and around the Main Street circle. When the show first switched, I missed the old one. It's just different. To get the full effect - be in the area in front of the castle. If you don't mind missing the laser show or fire torches, you can still see fireworks over by the Nemo ride or by Tom Sawyers island (where Fantasmic will be).
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Disney Tips N Tricks - The Parks
I consider myself an expert on spending the day at Disneyland with my kids (who are young and chicken). So if you have kids like mine and might be looking for a Disneyland adventure here in CA, my experience might just come in handy.
This will be an ongoing list as I have time/energy to add to it. If there is something you would like to know ASK & I'll get to it sooner than later. Truly it's just a list of my opinions and what has worked well with my kids.
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I've been doing the kiddie scene at Disneyland for SEVEN years. We first got season passes when I just had the two boys and baby Jake was just 15 months old. I've gone on my own with the two boys and when Jessica came along I took all three along with just me. (When she SCREAMED the whole ride on It's a Small World, it didn't seem so small). Sure I enjoyed the days when Daddy could come too, but it's a place that I like to be with the kiddos during the day. Which brings me to this point: I don't stay all day. We put in a good 4-6 hours and call it good. We go for either the day scene or the evening scene. Since you'll be trying to do this all at once, it's going to be trickier for you. When our family comes to town, we drag our kids out for the whole day too. This is why I suggest
Tip #1- Go for a multi-day ticket. If you are visiting with children, you will be more relaxed spending 2 partial days in the parks than 1 ridiculously long day. When you were in high school, it made sense to arrive when it opens and stay 'til it closes. Let just say: tantrums, tears, tired - don't make for cute Disney pictures or happy memories. If you only go one day, remember that your kids don't know what they're missing. Don't rush. Enjoy each of the rides you get to. Plan time to just sit and eat snacks or let them wander. This is where ToonTown comes in handy for those new walkers that need to exercise their independence. The early toddler goes bonkers waiting in lines. They do not anticipate the thrill of the adventure like an older child will.
Disneyland vs. California Adventure - over time I have developed a love for the attractions at California Adventure. There are definitely some things worth seeing, but not enough for a whole day at California Adventure. You will be wishing that you had more time to finish things up at Disneyland and maybe a half day at California Adventure Park.
Tip #2 - Understanding the Park Hopper. Most multi-day tickets are also hopper tickets. This means that you can go in and out of either park on the same day. If you buy a one day ticket, it is JUST for ONE park for the whole day. You pay more for a one-day park hopper ticket & the privilege of going to both parks on the same day. In my opinion - not worth it. Unless you are staying more than a day, skip California Adventure. Also note that hopping isn't as convenient or simple as it sounds. It's time consuming to walk to the front of the park, cross to the other and re-enter (pull out tickets, check stamps, etc) the other park. California Adventure usually opens an hour after Disneyland and will close BEFORE Disneyland.
Some promotions are for a day at Disneyland & a day at California Adventure. If the price is right, this could be a fun deal. Just know that these promotions are not HOPPER tickets. You get one day at each park.
If you've already planned your trip, my tips on when to go to Disneyland will be useless. Crowds come and go throughout the year - holidays and summer break. Add scorching temperatures to summer months and that is why we NEVER go during July or August anymore. We have convinced all our family to adjust their trips so we don't have to accompany them during that time.
WHEN to visit Disneyland: The best trick is to look at the hours of operation. You may be sad to see that the park opens at 10 a.m. and closes at 8 p.m., but often you will be able to visit MORE attractions on those days during those 10 hours than you would if you brought your kids on a marathon day from 8 a.m. until midnight - seriously, NO young child wants to be at Disneyland for 16 hours in one day. I have heard the frustrated tones of many parents speaking of bribes and dolling out dollars for Mickey Ice Creams to soothe their heat exhausted children who have missed their naps. Look for shorter operating hours - this means that Disneyland is expecting fewer guests. Also look at the Annual Passholder Blockout Schedule. Those of us with passports have blockout dates when Disney expects the most visitors. I advise you to wait and come on a day that my passport is valid. It's less crowded. THIS link should hook you in to the blockout calendar - if not go to their site and follow the annual passholder info.
LINES & Wait Times- off season: don't wait more than 30 minutes. I prefer 15 minutes. There are exceptions: Peter Pan will ALWAYS be the longest ride in Fantasyland that's worth going on. If the line is still contained inside the covered maze, it will be alright to wait. If guests are waiting along the chain in front of the ride and around the corner - walk on by. Most young children will be excited about going on Dumbo also. If their whole trip hinges on riding the elephant, you might have to waste more time in line to fulfill their dream. My rulebook says: 30 minutes or less or walk on by.
Busy season: anything under 60 minutes you should go for, but make sure you are taking advantage of FAST PASS. Get a fast pass for one, then wait an hour for another. By the time you wait one out, your fast pass will be almost ready to use. Fast pass works great for the big rides, but kiddie rides in FantasyLand DO NOT have a FastPass option. Get one for Autopia or Buzz Lightyear (unless of course Buzz ride has a 10 minute wait time - just hop on).
During the off season, expect less crowds. But also note that certain rides will be "Closed for Refurbishment." They keep a pretty accurate list on the calendar on Disney's website.
This will be an ongoing list as I have time/energy to add to it. If there is something you would like to know ASK & I'll get to it sooner than later. Truly it's just a list of my opinions and what has worked well with my kids.
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I've been doing the kiddie scene at Disneyland for SEVEN years. We first got season passes when I just had the two boys and baby Jake was just 15 months old. I've gone on my own with the two boys and when Jessica came along I took all three along with just me. (When she SCREAMED the whole ride on It's a Small World, it didn't seem so small). Sure I enjoyed the days when Daddy could come too, but it's a place that I like to be with the kiddos during the day. Which brings me to this point: I don't stay all day. We put in a good 4-6 hours and call it good. We go for either the day scene or the evening scene. Since you'll be trying to do this all at once, it's going to be trickier for you. When our family comes to town, we drag our kids out for the whole day too. This is why I suggest
Tip #1- Go for a multi-day ticket. If you are visiting with children, you will be more relaxed spending 2 partial days in the parks than 1 ridiculously long day. When you were in high school, it made sense to arrive when it opens and stay 'til it closes. Let just say: tantrums, tears, tired - don't make for cute Disney pictures or happy memories. If you only go one day, remember that your kids don't know what they're missing. Don't rush. Enjoy each of the rides you get to. Plan time to just sit and eat snacks or let them wander. This is where ToonTown comes in handy for those new walkers that need to exercise their independence. The early toddler goes bonkers waiting in lines. They do not anticipate the thrill of the adventure like an older child will.
Disneyland vs. California Adventure - over time I have developed a love for the attractions at California Adventure. There are definitely some things worth seeing, but not enough for a whole day at California Adventure. You will be wishing that you had more time to finish things up at Disneyland and maybe a half day at California Adventure Park.
Tip #2 - Understanding the Park Hopper. Most multi-day tickets are also hopper tickets. This means that you can go in and out of either park on the same day. If you buy a one day ticket, it is JUST for ONE park for the whole day. You pay more for a one-day park hopper ticket & the privilege of going to both parks on the same day. In my opinion - not worth it. Unless you are staying more than a day, skip California Adventure. Also note that hopping isn't as convenient or simple as it sounds. It's time consuming to walk to the front of the park, cross to the other and re-enter (pull out tickets, check stamps, etc) the other park. California Adventure usually opens an hour after Disneyland and will close BEFORE Disneyland.
Some promotions are for a day at Disneyland & a day at California Adventure. If the price is right, this could be a fun deal. Just know that these promotions are not HOPPER tickets. You get one day at each park.
If you've already planned your trip, my tips on when to go to Disneyland will be useless. Crowds come and go throughout the year - holidays and summer break. Add scorching temperatures to summer months and that is why we NEVER go during July or August anymore. We have convinced all our family to adjust their trips so we don't have to accompany them during that time.
WHEN to visit Disneyland: The best trick is to look at the hours of operation. You may be sad to see that the park opens at 10 a.m. and closes at 8 p.m., but often you will be able to visit MORE attractions on those days during those 10 hours than you would if you brought your kids on a marathon day from 8 a.m. until midnight - seriously, NO young child wants to be at Disneyland for 16 hours in one day. I have heard the frustrated tones of many parents speaking of bribes and dolling out dollars for Mickey Ice Creams to soothe their heat exhausted children who have missed their naps. Look for shorter operating hours - this means that Disneyland is expecting fewer guests. Also look at the Annual Passholder Blockout Schedule. Those of us with passports have blockout dates when Disney expects the most visitors. I advise you to wait and come on a day that my passport is valid. It's less crowded. THIS link should hook you in to the blockout calendar - if not go to their site and follow the annual passholder info.
LINES & Wait Times- off season: don't wait more than 30 minutes. I prefer 15 minutes. There are exceptions: Peter Pan will ALWAYS be the longest ride in Fantasyland that's worth going on. If the line is still contained inside the covered maze, it will be alright to wait. If guests are waiting along the chain in front of the ride and around the corner - walk on by. Most young children will be excited about going on Dumbo also. If their whole trip hinges on riding the elephant, you might have to waste more time in line to fulfill their dream. My rulebook says: 30 minutes or less or walk on by.
Busy season: anything under 60 minutes you should go for, but make sure you are taking advantage of FAST PASS. Get a fast pass for one, then wait an hour for another. By the time you wait one out, your fast pass will be almost ready to use. Fast pass works great for the big rides, but kiddie rides in FantasyLand DO NOT have a FastPass option. Get one for Autopia or Buzz Lightyear (unless of course Buzz ride has a 10 minute wait time - just hop on).
During the off season, expect less crowds. But also note that certain rides will be "Closed for Refurbishment." They keep a pretty accurate list on the calendar on Disney's website.
January - wonderful - Small World & Haunted Mansion are closed to take down the Christmas decor. Our coldest weather comes in January or February- rain & winds too. Hard to know if you are booking in advance.
February - wonderful
March - 1st half is wonderful. 2nd half is when Californians have Spring Break - it gets crazy busy!!! We've been to Disneyland in rain ponchos in March. Don't let the rain scare you. The temperatures don't get too bad. The forecast will scare lots of locals away (because we are spoiled and can wait it out). So many attractions are inside anyway. There are lots of covered areas in the park. I suggest picking up some ponchos at Target (there's one a couple miles south of Disneyland) instead of paying a premium price for ones with Mickey ears.
April - Neighboring states have their spring breaks so we get lots of visitors - unpredictable crowds. Weather is lovely. I'd rather brave a crowd now than in the summertime.
May - Wonderful. We start seeing school groups or high school tour groups visit for their end of year trips. Weather heats up.
June - You can still sneak in some nice days at the beginning of the month during the week (before the CA school get out), but the tourists start invading and the temperatures soar.
July - Plan for crowds. Pack lots of water & juice boxes. I do give Disney credit for managing the masses. When they expect lots of guests, they put both trains on the track. They have more boats afloat, more vehicles on the course etc. Sometimes it's a pain to navigate when they make some areas a one way zone or re-route you. Overall, it's all for your good. For me - TOO hot. Lines TOO long. Sometimes they will run out of Fast Passes for the DAY. All you can do is bake & wait!
August - HOT. Crowded. At the end of the month the pass holders can return. The next couple of Friday nights get flooded with us returning before school starts or after our first week back.
September - Do come. Skip school and you won't regret it. It's still VERY HOT here. The Californians are back to school during the day. It's wonderful.
October - Wonderful. They've started Halloween/Harvest Festivities. Cute! Temperatures mild and so enjoyable.
November - Christmas decor goes up usually the first weekend, so you can get into the holiday spirit early. Weather is WONDERFUL. The Christmas Parade, Fireworks, & Events don't start until Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving week is ONE OF THE MOST CROWDED EVER. If you expect to ride rides, you'll be waiting. Our family has gone - we get the ENTIRE Thanksgiving week OFF of school - during this week. We visit in short spurts and don't expect to go on many attractions. We go for just the parade, fireworks, & maybe a ride or two. If you are trying to see everything, don't go for Thanksgiving.
December - Of course there will be crowds for Christmas, but the first and second weeks in December are not bad. Go at the beginning of the week (Mon,Tues, Wed). The firework schedule will probably be nightly by then. Evenings will get busier, but lots of the locals are attending company parties and finishing their shopping. Plan on sharing the festivities with lots of other guests. Avoid weekends and the week of Christmas. We've never gone between Christmas & New Years - it's ALWAYS blocked out for us. I believe the Christmas stuff is still up into the first part of the New Year - check the calendar.
February - wonderful
March - 1st half is wonderful. 2nd half is when Californians have Spring Break - it gets crazy busy!!! We've been to Disneyland in rain ponchos in March. Don't let the rain scare you. The temperatures don't get too bad. The forecast will scare lots of locals away (because we are spoiled and can wait it out). So many attractions are inside anyway. There are lots of covered areas in the park. I suggest picking up some ponchos at Target (there's one a couple miles south of Disneyland) instead of paying a premium price for ones with Mickey ears.
April - Neighboring states have their spring breaks so we get lots of visitors - unpredictable crowds. Weather is lovely. I'd rather brave a crowd now than in the summertime.
May - Wonderful. We start seeing school groups or high school tour groups visit for their end of year trips. Weather heats up.
June - You can still sneak in some nice days at the beginning of the month during the week (before the CA school get out), but the tourists start invading and the temperatures soar.
July - Plan for crowds. Pack lots of water & juice boxes. I do give Disney credit for managing the masses. When they expect lots of guests, they put both trains on the track. They have more boats afloat, more vehicles on the course etc. Sometimes it's a pain to navigate when they make some areas a one way zone or re-route you. Overall, it's all for your good. For me - TOO hot. Lines TOO long. Sometimes they will run out of Fast Passes for the DAY. All you can do is bake & wait!
August - HOT. Crowded. At the end of the month the pass holders can return. The next couple of Friday nights get flooded with us returning before school starts or after our first week back.
September - Do come. Skip school and you won't regret it. It's still VERY HOT here. The Californians are back to school during the day. It's wonderful.
October - Wonderful. They've started Halloween/Harvest Festivities. Cute! Temperatures mild and so enjoyable.
November - Christmas decor goes up usually the first weekend, so you can get into the holiday spirit early. Weather is WONDERFUL. The Christmas Parade, Fireworks, & Events don't start until Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving week is ONE OF THE MOST CROWDED EVER. If you expect to ride rides, you'll be waiting. Our family has gone - we get the ENTIRE Thanksgiving week OFF of school - during this week. We visit in short spurts and don't expect to go on many attractions. We go for just the parade, fireworks, & maybe a ride or two. If you are trying to see everything, don't go for Thanksgiving.
December - Of course there will be crowds for Christmas, but the first and second weeks in December are not bad. Go at the beginning of the week (Mon,Tues, Wed). The firework schedule will probably be nightly by then. Evenings will get busier, but lots of the locals are attending company parties and finishing their shopping. Plan on sharing the festivities with lots of other guests. Avoid weekends and the week of Christmas. We've never gone between Christmas & New Years - it's ALWAYS blocked out for us. I believe the Christmas stuff is still up into the first part of the New Year - check the calendar.
Sets of THREE Tag
I've been tagged by my dear sister (from the mission), Jody. How I enjoyed seeing you last week! Pictures from the blessed gathering to come.
Three Joys:
When I first received this tag, my immediate thought was "I have FOUR Joys: James, Jacob, Jessica, & Jayson." But since they were all riding my nerves and trying my patience today, I'll say:
Ice Cream
Mountains
My Sweet Jon
Three Fears:
Heights
Not being able to raise my kids
Not having my husband with me to raise our kids
Three Goals:
Finish customizing my Blurb book I started last Christmas
Downsize my body; upgrade my health
I'm only going to have two goals. I'm having a hard enough time getting them finished. Goal number 3 will be saved for a rainy day.
Three Current Obsessions:
Photography
Blogging
My baby
Three Random or Surprising Facts About Me:
I don't usually watch American Idol (I watched the better part of this past season - that was a first)
I don't know how use my mp3 player
I can curl, flip (both ways), & create a seashell shape with my tongue
I know this is a TAG, but I'm not quick enough to catch any of you. So if you'd like to share your sets of three: You're it!!
Three Joys:
When I first received this tag, my immediate thought was "I have FOUR Joys: James, Jacob, Jessica, & Jayson." But since they were all riding my nerves and trying my patience today, I'll say:
Ice Cream
Mountains
My Sweet Jon
Three Fears:
Heights
Not being able to raise my kids
Not having my husband with me to raise our kids
Three Goals:
Finish customizing my Blurb book I started last Christmas
Downsize my body; upgrade my health
I'm only going to have two goals. I'm having a hard enough time getting them finished. Goal number 3 will be saved for a rainy day.
Three Current Obsessions:
Photography
Blogging
My baby
Three Random or Surprising Facts About Me:
I don't usually watch American Idol (I watched the better part of this past season - that was a first)
I don't know how use my mp3 player
I can curl, flip (both ways), & create a seashell shape with my tongue
I know this is a TAG, but I'm not quick enough to catch any of you. So if you'd like to share your sets of three: You're it!!
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Party's Over
So the grand event that has taken every tidbit of my time since Saturday is over. I had to put everything together in a hurry. Jacob wasn't interested in waiting 'til Friday since his actual birthday was last Sunday. It worked out better because two - make that three- of his friends are traveling this weekend.
His heart was set on having a jumper/bouncer. Temperatures are in the high 90s this week, but this doesn't seem to bother young boys. I provided spray bottles to mist themselves with - they started a mini water war. Between the bouncer and the newly acquired Mario Dance Revolution Game, boys were heating up. Lots of slick brows and bright red faces darting around our house.
I know that the boys didn't notice, but I made the "Darn Good Chocolate Cake" recipe from the Cake Mix Doctor. It had extras like a cup of sour cream for richness, chocolate pudding for moisture, & 1 1/2 cups of chocolate chips because every recipe is better with more chocolate. I wimped out and just used store bought frosting. I was in a time crunch. I made a basketball cake once before when James was just two years old. It's fun to sort through the Reese's Pieces to make the ball.
I'm glad to report that no bones were broken nor were any gashes acquired in the making of this birthday party - not that the guys didn't try. They nearly tipped the bouncer over once and were tackling each other while bouncing. Definitely a smart idea to pay the extra $7 for insurance; replacement cost on one of these bouncers is listed at $4000.
Jacob loved his gifts. He's into cash, giftcards, Pokemon, & video games. He requested the DS Action Replay & Pokemon Cheat books. Each provide shortcuts and helps to beating the games. Seems to me that it would be funner to figure it out yourself so the game doesn't end as quick, but I'm from the Atari generation - what would I know???
Candle blowing was a bit tricky outside. There was enough of a stuffy, warm breeze in the air to blow out the candles as we lit them. It was tricky getting a picture of him with the huddle of hands around the cake blocking the breeze. Hope YOU got the wishes and not the winds.
Just One for Now
I've been sorting through hundreds of vacation photos. I'd like to have more uninterrupted time to post & edit. But for now, enjoy my adorable nephew.
Because We are Crazy
We made it to our THIRD National Park this year. That will be tough to beat. Neither Jon nor I have been to the Timpanogos Caves in over a decade. Although the cave hasn't changed, our perspective and parental status have changed. Why did we decide to hike our quad (one of which would have to be packed) up 1 1/2 miles of steep mountain trail? The simple answer is because we are crazy.
Upon arrival, Jon quickly went to the ticket booth to get our reserved tour time and our start time for the hike. Only 20 people are allowed in each tour and you are assigned a specific time. You are given 1 1/2 hours to hike 1 1/2 miles - seems doable enough. It would be if it were just Jon & I, but we were not alone.
I started out with the pink backpack with everyone's jackets & assorted trail snacks on my back. This is necessary since it is only 45 degrees inside the cave and you stay in there for about 50 minutes. Funny how heavy a 1/2 dozen jackets can be when they are sitting on your hot back. I also shouldered my camera bag and held Jessica's hand. She wasn't given a lot of freedom to roam. Not with the tempting drop-offs at every turn. Jon toted the backpack which freed me up to pull out my camera and required Jessica to hold Dad's hand. The first part of the trail was mostly shaded with pretty trees, it was also more leveled than the trail ahead.
Upon arrival, Jon quickly went to the ticket booth to get our reserved tour time and our start time for the hike. Only 20 people are allowed in each tour and you are assigned a specific time. You are given 1 1/2 hours to hike 1 1/2 miles - seems doable enough. It would be if it were just Jon & I, but we were not alone.
I started out with the pink backpack with everyone's jackets & assorted trail snacks on my back. This is necessary since it is only 45 degrees inside the cave and you stay in there for about 50 minutes. Funny how heavy a 1/2 dozen jackets can be when they are sitting on your hot back. I also shouldered my camera bag and held Jessica's hand. She wasn't given a lot of freedom to roam. Not with the tempting drop-offs at every turn. Jon toted the backpack which freed me up to pull out my camera and required Jessica to hold Dad's hand. The first part of the trail was mostly shaded with pretty trees, it was also more leveled than the trail ahead.
The ring pops were distributed in hopes that the whining could be stopped & the sweet flavor would overpower the tired feet. The trail was a steep climb.
There are stretches of the trail that are labeled "extreme rock fall area." Whenever the trail had a red line, this was a no-stop zone. Only once did my kids try tumbling rocks down these open areas.
The water pack is still a novelty with our kids. They are more willing to carry that pack than any of the other bags. We needed to pack water for all of us - no drinking fountains.
The boys usually led the way. I was a bit worried when they'd get out too far ahead. I've seen them be playful and silly. I just didn't want to see them be goofy by the cliffs.
It took much coaxing to get Jessica up the last bit. We arrived just as our group was to leave on the tour, which was a problem because Jayson needed to eat before being in the cave for an hour. We ended up going with the 11:50a.m. tour group instead.
No baby backpacks were allowed in the cave. We left that down on the trail in the "backpack parking" area. Jayson was switched to the Bjorn carrier. I decided to carry him so Jon could manage a tired and clingy Jessica. What I didn't remember about the inside of the caves were all the areas that required ducking and squating. There were narrow passages that you had to move through sideways and us tall folks nearly got a few stalactites in the forehead. Below you will see snapshot samples of carmel falls, stalactites with iron deposits giving them the added color, & cave bacon. Using the camera was NOT a priority. It was very dark inside and navigating was the priority.
James had to go the bathroom about half way through the tour which made his trip rather uncomfortable. Jayson started fussing, but luckily sucked on a blanket to fall asleep. Jessica did remarkably well in the cave. Jacob refuses to comment and won't claim that he liked it at all. Jon & I enjoyed the cave and even part of the walking. It was stressful going as parents. When Jon would turn and swing the backpack out behind him I had visions of him losing his balance. Kind of stressful watching my family use their agency. Not exactly a relaxing experience.
The forest service asks it's guests to allow 3 hours - 1 1/2 hours up, almost an hour in the cave, and 1/2 hour to walk down. If you have young children and you are still set on taking them to the cave before age five, I recommend that you disregard those estimates. There are warning signs all over about NOT running because of the open trail and steep drop offs. This was not our worry with Jessica. She was puttered out. She didn't even want to put one foot in front of the other going downhill. As the treat supply depleted, along with the water, we were happy to see our van in the parking lot. Finished!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Phrases I Live By
I had a dream last night that I was taking a college exam that was filled with extensive vocabulary and difficult spellings. In my dream the letters came back to me, but were buried in the furthermost part of my mind. I used to be smart. I used to know lots of theoretical terms, names of respectable persons in my field, and I even understood the applications of most of my knowledge.
I'm wondering if all that old stuff is just taking up memory. I'm losing mine fast. I still believe that I have it in me to be book smart, or school smart, or even career smart if I had to be. But for now, the majority of my energy is going into being Mommy Smart. And you're in luck. I'm going to share with you the secret textbook for "just being a mom."
Vocabulary & Phrases to Know:
Each phrase can be adapted or modified by voice inflections, speed, & volume. I will warn you, however, that larger volume does NOT equal greater comprehension or more prompt results. It is often subject to backfire effect. This is when your child listens LESS even though you have declared your request more abundantly. I have taken note from some of my good friends on the whisper technique. They have a super ability of mustering much power by softening their voice and tone. I'll need to work on that.
I'm wondering if all that old stuff is just taking up memory. I'm losing mine fast. I still believe that I have it in me to be book smart, or school smart, or even career smart if I had to be. But for now, the majority of my energy is going into being Mommy Smart. And you're in luck. I'm going to share with you the secret textbook for "just being a mom."
Vocabulary & Phrases to Know:
*No
*I mean it
*Please
*Thank-you
*Who's socks are these?
*Put your shoes away
*Two more bites
*Uh-oh
*Band-aid
*I love you
*Nigh-Night time
*Tickle tickle
*Peek-a-boo
*What's wrong?
*I'll help you
*What happened
*Time Out
*Softly
*It's all right. Mama's here...
*Shhhhh.....
*Kisses
*You are the best
*You are really good at that
*Did I tell you that I love you?
*My turn to brush your teeth
*Stop fighting
*What's the trouble?
*If
*Where are the wipes?
*It's time to clean up
*I'm really proud of you
*You can do this
*Seat belts on
*Do you need to go potty?
*Wash your hands
*Not on your shirt
*You can have mine
*Who got this out?
*I'm sorry
*Can't you see I'm on the phone?
*Your turn
*It's time for homework
*Because everyone in our family gets to help
*Pick that up
*Now
*Don't throw
*Be nice
*Say you're sorry
*Let's go
*Come on
*Faster faster
*We're going to be late
*I'm so glad that you're mine
And the phrase coined just for my kids that they truly hate to hear, "you don't have to like it. You just have to eat it."
*I mean it
*Please
*Thank-you
*Who's socks are these?
*Put your shoes away
*Two more bites
*Uh-oh
*Band-aid
*I love you
*Nigh-Night time
*Tickle tickle
*Peek-a-boo
*What's wrong?
*I'll help you
*What happened
*Time Out
*Softly
*It's all right. Mama's here...
*Shhhhh.....
*Kisses
*You are the best
*You are really good at that
*Did I tell you that I love you?
*My turn to brush your teeth
*Stop fighting
*What's the trouble?
*If
*Where are the wipes?
*It's time to clean up
*I'm really proud of you
*You can do this
*Seat belts on
*Do you need to go potty?
*Wash your hands
*Not on your shirt
*You can have mine
*Who got this out?
*I'm sorry
*Can't you see I'm on the phone?
*Your turn
*It's time for homework
*Because everyone in our family gets to help
*Pick that up
*Now
*Don't throw
*Be nice
*Say you're sorry
*Let's go
*Come on
*Faster faster
*We're going to be late
*I'm so glad that you're mine
And the phrase coined just for my kids that they truly hate to hear, "you don't have to like it. You just have to eat it."
Each phrase can be adapted or modified by voice inflections, speed, & volume. I will warn you, however, that larger volume does NOT equal greater comprehension or more prompt results. It is often subject to backfire effect. This is when your child listens LESS even though you have declared your request more abundantly. I have taken note from some of my good friends on the whisper technique. They have a super ability of mustering much power by softening their voice and tone. I'll need to work on that.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Green Eggs & Ham
We just returned from two weeks worth of adventures in Utah visiting our families. I'm sorting through hundreds of photos - trying to find the handful that won't completely overwhelm you. I REALLY miss the computer when I am away for a while. Jayson isn't willing to let me spend the next few days nonstop on the computer, so the posts will be coming eventually.
Before we took the dreaded 10 hour drive, Jon decided that we might save some electricity by unplugging our garage freezer. So I planned meals around our frozen foods and we transferred the leftovers to the inside freezer. Now that we are back I'm trying to deplete our frozen supplies. This means that we are out of chicken & ground beef, but have several servings of ham, pork chops, & tilapia. Obviously these are not my favorite foods to prepare.
After a nice afternoon swim, we returned home with growling bellies. I had nothing in the works and we wanted something quick. I suggested a nice egg omelette- hoping to toss in some of our diced ham, and fresh tomatoes from the garden. The counter offer from the children was: green eggs & ham. So I pulled out the food coloring and dripped it into their scrambled eggs. Yum!
Before we took the dreaded 10 hour drive, Jon decided that we might save some electricity by unplugging our garage freezer. So I planned meals around our frozen foods and we transferred the leftovers to the inside freezer. Now that we are back I'm trying to deplete our frozen supplies. This means that we are out of chicken & ground beef, but have several servings of ham, pork chops, & tilapia. Obviously these are not my favorite foods to prepare.
After a nice afternoon swim, we returned home with growling bellies. I had nothing in the works and we wanted something quick. I suggested a nice egg omelette- hoping to toss in some of our diced ham, and fresh tomatoes from the garden. The counter offer from the children was: green eggs & ham. So I pulled out the food coloring and dripped it into their scrambled eggs. Yum!
I'm Proud to be an American
On the 4th of July we traveled up to the Kaysville parade so we could see Grandpa Great ride with the veterans in the Humvees. I was a bit frazzled trying to get my family to walk 4 1/2 blocks to meet up with Grandma, my parents, & some cousins. We were walking up the parade route as the band came toward us. The Humvees were at the very front of the parade, so we stopped in an open spot and pulled out the cameras to get the pics before finding the rest of the family.
I got real emotional, straining my eyes to see which of these white haired war heroes was my grandpa. I saw the truck labeled Air Force, but didn't notice that grandpa got to ride in the passenger seat instead of in the sunny bed of the truck. Special thanks to my cousin Kami who darted across the street to capture grandpa waving out of his window.
I was so full of pride and gratitude. My grandpa is a war hero, but he is also a personal hero of mine. How grateful I am that he was not among the fallen war heroes, but he has been able to stand as a leader and example to me in our family. He is a man of honor and kindness. He is a true patriot. There is nothing sweeter than to see his face light up when he greets one of his 36 GREAT Grandchildren. I'm so thankful that I have known him all my life. He's the only one that has gotten away with calling me Jenny or JennyJo. How cute is that?
As the veterans passed, we realized that we were standing just 6 feet from the rest of our family that we were rushing to meet up with. It was sweet to be with others who are such fans of Grandpa.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Eight Great Years
It was eight years ago today that Jacob joined our family. His arrival was a surprise since he came three weeks early (my first son was induced out two days late so we didn't expect to see Jacob for a few weeks). He was my tiniest baby weighing in at 7 lbs. 15 oz. at 37 WEEKS. He has always been full of surprises. Life is never dull with Jacob in the house.
When Jacob was a baby, I affectionately referred to him as my lil punkin or Jake. He prefers to go by Jacob, but would probably let you call him Jacob the Jedi. As a toddler he was a total Harry Potter fan. I was one of the mothers that let her two year old watch the movie over and over again. His loyalties moved to Star Wars & he has gone through several lightsabers - some with sounds and lights and a variety of colors. Today he is a Pokemon collector and LOVES video games.
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